When it comes to weddings, expectations are sky-high. Every detail, from the dress to the flowers and, of course, the makeup, is meticulously planned. But what happens when things don’t go as expected?
JANUARY 20, 2025 / Words The Bridal Journey / Media Credit TikTok/@laurenaveryh
“Her character hurt the most. She seemed so kind and easy to work with.”
Makeup Artist Kandra Jones
Recently, bride Lauren Avery took to TikTok to share a dramatic turn of events on her big day: washing off her professional makeup 20 minutes before the ceremony and redoing it herself—cue collective gasps. Lauren documented her decision to ditch the professional makeup in a now-viral TikTok, showing her standing at a bathroom sink, washing off the look she described as “powdery” and “unblended.” Lauren said she’d asked for a “natural, glowy, blushy, bronzy” look but ended up with something far from her vision. The kicker? She had a trial with her makeup artist beforehand and provided feedback on adjustments she wanted for the big day. However, Lauren felt those changes weren’t reflected. “I looked like one colour—ashen,” she commented, adding, “It just didn’t feel like me.”
The Makeup Artist Responds
Unsurprisingly, the makeup artist, who goes by @twirlyshears, had a different perspective. Shocked to learn about the TikTok post months after the wedding, she explained that there were no signs the bride was unhappy during the session. Lauren had given what seemed like a glowing review at the time. “She gave me the biggest smile I’ve ever seen on a bride,” the artist shared, noting that the bride had explicitly approved the lip and cheek colours used on the wedding day.
The Fallout
TikTok users were quick to jump into the debate. While some applauded Lauren for taking control and ensuring she felt her best on her wedding day, others questioned her communication with the artist and the decision to air the situation online. The makeup artist’s disappointment wasn’t in the washed-off makeup but in feeling blindsided. “Her character hurt the most. She seemed so kind and easy to work with,” she said.
Lessons For Future Brides
This incident offers valuable lessons for brides-to-be:
Communication Is Key: Makeup artists can’t read minds. Be clear about your preferences and voice concerns during the session. Speak Up: You’re paying for a service, so don’t hesitate to request adjustments before the look is finalised. Know Yourself: If you love how you do your makeup and feel confident in it, there’s no rule saying you can’t DIY for your big day.
A Silver Lining For Makeup Artists
The makeup artist ended her response gracefully, offering advice to the bride and her fellow professionals. “You are not going to offend us. We want you to feel your best,” she said. Her words were met with support from other artists, many of whom praised her for handling the situation with professionalism.
Final Thoughts
Whether you side with Lauren or her makeup artist, one thing is clear: the stakes on a wedding day are high, and emotions run even higher. This story serves as a reminder that the goal is always the same—to feel beautiful, confident, and like the best version of yourself as you walk down the aisle.
Now, tell us—what would you have done in Lauren’s shoes? Let us know in the comments below, or join the conversation on Instagram and TikTok.