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Inside Vivienne and Patrick’s Modern Coastal Wedding on O‘ahu’s North Shore
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On O‘ahu’s North Shore, the wind moves differently. Soft, salt-dusted, carrying with it the calm that only an island can hold. It was here, on a stretch of coastline framed by deep greens and ocean blues, that Vivienne and Patrick welcomed their loved ones for a celebration defined by intention, heritage and an effortless sense of modern romance. The weekend unfolded slowly, like a film in warm natural light, each moment rooted in connection, culture and the quiet magic of Hawaii.
Their story began at 13, two teenagers from different worlds meeting at a Stanford summer camp and sharing nothing more than sunshine and polite conversation before returning to their own cities. For years, their connection existed only through the quiet rhythm of Facebook updates. Everything shifted years later when Patrick messaged Vivienne during college, joking about her finally getting her braces off. A chance reunion in San Francisco followed, and the spark that began at 13 became something real. They spent three years long-distance between New York and San Francisco, then two more between Los Angeles and the Bay Area. It was a rhythm of flights, FaceTimes and steady commitment, always choosing each other in the spaces between. Today they live in Los Angeles. Vivienne works in social media and storytelling at Tower 28 Beauty, and Patrick works in engineering and innovation at Divergent 3D. They often describe themselves as opposites, yet somehow always in sync.
VIVIENNE & PATRICK (1)
Photography Sophie Lin Berard
Hawaii became their natural destination. They had returned to the islands for years, drawn to the warmth of the people and the familiarity Vivienne felt from Singapore, where cultures blend seamlessly. The North Shore, in particular, felt calm, grounding and beautifully removed from the energy of Waikiki. Choosing it for their wedding felt instinctive.
Vivienne’s ceremony look was intentional and personal. She wore a Vivienne Westwood gown that felt sculptural, effortless and entirely her. The choice carried a touch of nostalgia too, as her childhood soccer coach once nicknamed her Westwood. Instead of a veil, the gown’s cape moved freely in the Hawaiian breeze, creating a sense of softness and natural motion. For the reception, she changed into a Danielle Frankel two-piece of lace and embroidered tulle that felt modern and youthful, a textural contrast to the ceremony’s clean lines.
Her jewellery was custom designed with LA jeweller Gabby Mossigihi. Her engagement ring and wedding band were created to feel like an organic pair, with oval and pear diamonds sitting on two curved bands inspired by the idea that life moves in sine waves. A custom tennis bracelet with alternating pear and emerald-cut diamonds completed the look. She also wore a ring passed down from her mother as a sentimental gesture to family. She alternated between Amina Muaddi and Manolo Blahnik shoes throughout the day. Without a traditional veil, she let the gown’s cape speak for itself.
Her bouquet, created by Renko Florals, featured seasonal crown flower and stephanotis from local growers, along with rare miltonia and brassica orchids. Wisps of raw silk tied the arrangement into a cylindrical shape that moved beautifully with the wind. Patrick wore a custom suit created by his childhood best friend, Nate, co-founder of Haitch in New York. The fittings became a ritual, blending craftsmanship and friendship into the wedding day. Vivienne’s mother wore two custom cheongsams from Singapore. Bridesmaids chose their own dresses, allowing each to feel confident and themselves.
Personalisation shaped the ceremony. Vivienne and Patrick wrote individual notes for each guest, placing them into glassine envelopes at their seats. Each message shared memories, gratitude and the role that person played in their lives, creating an emotional start to the day. Their floral direction brought together Vivienne’s heritage and the landscape of Hawai‘i, weaving orchids, Singapore’s national flower, into arrangements alongside tropical fruits such as longan. The wedding party walked to “Dive” by Olivia Dean, a song they felt represented letting love in fully. Vivienne walked to “Godspeed” by Frank Ocean, a reminder of growth and embracing the present. They recessed to “This Will Be” by Natalie Cole, a joyful nod to the rom-coms of Vivienne’s childhood.
The reception took place at the edge of the water, intentionally designed to feel grounded and in harmony with the coastal winds. A tent framed the landscape softly, and every detail was chosen with purpose. Earthy tones anchored the tablescape, while fresh greens brought lightness. Family tables remained intimate, while friends gathered along a long communal table that encouraged conversation. Table Method sourced the table settings, adding a fresh, contemporary layer to the organic palette. Stationery menus were laser-cut wood lined with linen, creating a tactile experience. Lotus and Ash designed the suite so that each element sat naturally within the florals rather than feeling decorative. Ikebana-inspired arrangements added depth and shape to each table.
VIVIENNE & PATRICK (1)
Photography Sophie Lin Berard
The menu highlighted locally sourced ingredients and Hawaiian flavours. Passed bites blended Asian and Western influences as a nod to the couple’s shared backgrounds. Entrées featured both filet mignon and black miso cod, reflecting their long-standing tradition of ordering surf and turf together. The bar served cocktails tied to personal memories, including tangerine margaritas and lychee martinis that their friends now associate with their engagement party.
Guests approached Vivienne and Patrick throughout the night with their handwritten notes in hand, emotional and smiling. Their first dance was intentionally lighthearted. They chose “Are You Even Real” by Teddy Swims and Giveon and embraced the moment without pressure. The dance floor opened with “Nokia” by Drake, immediately lifting the energy and keeping guests dancing late into the night.
Vivienne describes the day as surreal, watching months of creativity and collaboration transform into something even more beautiful than she imagined. Nothing went unexpectedly, which she credits to the work of planner Grace Heller. Having loved ones fly in from around the world felt deeply meaningful, especially for Vivienne, who has lived away from her family for eleven years. Seeing friends and family experience the island through their eyes felt like the most rewarding part of the weekend.
Her advice to future couples is to choose what feels authentic rather than what trends online. When weddings reflect who you are, they naturally feel beautiful. She reminds brides to ask themselves whether a choice is being made for them or for others, a question that always helped her stay grounded during the planning process.
