Whether you’re attending a lavish destination celebration or sending your love from afar, knowing what to write in a wedding card can feel unexpectedly difficult. The message you choose should strike the right balance of personal, warm and thoughtful, reflecting your relationship with the couple and the tone of their day. From heartfelt to humorous, religious to refined, this guide features over 100 curated wedding wishes and message ideas for every guest and every couple. Save it, personalise it and use it as your go-to when the blank card is staring back at you.

Wedding Wishes: Quick Dos and Don’ts

Do
•Address both partners, even if you know only one
•Mention something personal, if relevant
•Keep your tone consistent throughout

Don’t
•Refer to past relationships or make awkward jokes
•Mention the gift amount if giving money
•Overthink: simple and sincere is always best

Classic Wedding Wishes

Perfect for any couple, these traditional messages are timeless, elegant and universally appropriate.

•Wishing you a lifetime of love, laughter and shared joy
•May your wedding day be just the beginning of a beautiful life together
•Here’s to love, partnership and a future filled with happiness
•It was an honour to celebrate this day with you. Congratulations again
•May the years ahead be filled with lasting joy

Funny Wedding Wishes

A little wit goes a long way — ideal for couples who appreciate humour and a relaxed tone.

•You found someone who’s willing to put up with you. That’s real love
•Marriage: when dating goes pro
•May your life together be full of laughter and zero arguments about what to watch
•You did it. You’re off the apps forever
•Wishing you a lifetime of inside jokes, great takeout and unconditional WiFi

Romantic and Poetic Wishes

For those who prefer a more lyrical, emotionally expressive message.

•Two hearts, one story — may yours be extraordinary
•Your love is a quiet kind of magic. May it grow stronger with every year
•What a joy it is to witness a love so real and grounded
•In a world full of fleeting moments, may your love be the constant
•May you always find home in one another

Religious or Spiritual Wedding Messages

Respectful and reverent, these are thoughtful for couples where faith is central.

•May your union be blessed with peace, grace and divine love
•Wishing you a marriage built on faith, hope and trust
•As you begin this sacred journey, may God be at the centre of your love
•May your love reflect his light every day of your lives
•Praying for a life together that is filled with purpose, compassion and strength

Messages for Close Friends

More personal and heartfelt, these are perfect for lifelong friends and chosen family

•Watching you marry the love of your life was something I’ll never forget
•From the first time you spoke about them, I knew this was it
•I couldn’t be happier for you — your love is inspiring
•Here’s to years of deep friendship, shared dreams and beautiful chaos
•You deserve every bit of the joy you felt today and more

Messages for Family

Whether you’re writing to a sibling, cousin or close family friend, these messages feel warm and familiar.

•Our whole family is celebrating this moment with you
•It’s been such a joy watching your love story unfold
•You’ve found someone who complements you beautifully — what a gift
•Wishing you a marriage filled with unconditional love and shared traditions
•We’re so proud of you and thrilled for your next chapter

Formal Wedding Wishes

Ideal for colleagues, acquaintances or more formal affairs.

•Congratulations on this special milestone. Wishing you joy and success in your life together
•Thank you for the honour of sharing in your day
•Wishing you all the best as you begin this exciting new chapter
•Your wedding day was a beautiful celebration of commitment. Congratulations
•May your marriage be built on mutual respect, kindness and understanding

What to Write if You’re Giving a Monetary Gift

A few tactful ways to acknowledge the gesture without sounding transactional.

•Please enjoy this gift toward your honeymoon or future adventures together
•A small gesture to support your beautiful new beginning
•Hoping this helps you create special memories in your first year of marriage
•Congratulations again — we’re so happy to help you celebrate
•Wishing you joy and this little something to take with you

Belated Wedding Card Messages

Even if you’re sending your card a little late, your words still matter.

•Apologies for the delay, but the joy is just as heartfelt
•Wishing you every happiness in your married life — now and always
•I may have missed the moment, but I’m still sending all my love
•Congratulations to two wonderful people. Your love is worth celebrating every day
•It’s never too late to say how happy I am for you both

How to Sign Off

Match your sign-off to your tone and relationship:

•With love
•All my best
•Warm wishes
•With gratitude
•Congratulations again
•Sincerely

Our Final Note

The best wedding cards are the ones that sound like you. Whether you’re writing something heartfelt, humorous or simply sincere, what matters most is that your words come from a place of joy. If you’re ever in doubt, keep it simple, genuine and personal, that’s what the couple will remember.